I finally got tired of waiting and I rooted and flashed Android Revolution HD and I'm really happy with the experience so far. I finally have lock screen notifications through NiLS, got rid of the black bar in older apps, no AT&T bloatware, and a bunch of other improvements. The root/flash process was pretty painless even from a Mac, and so far it is rock solid (knock on wood). I did forget to back up my Zooper Widget templates, and I lost a couple of pictures that I thought Google should have had, but otherwise no issues. I can definitely see that it's not for the faint of heart, but as long as you do your research and make sure you follow directions, it doesn't seem to be that hard (that being said, I do have 20 years of IT, QA, and technical support experience, so take that with a grain of salt).