Hi,
Sorry in advance for a lengthy description of my issue.. When my girlfriend came home yesterday she asked me why the hell i have Grindr on my OnePlus nord 2 and shows me the app on her phone and there is a notification which says "closest chat 1m away" when we are sitting next to each other. I replied that i've never had grindr and that I would have no use for the app since i am straight. She doesn't believe me so I walk away with my phone so we can check if distance changes and sure it does. When I am 20m away it says 20m away etc. When I disconnect location services on phone, the "chat 1m away" dissapears, so its quite clear its tracking to my phone. So, somehow grindr is locating my phone and its showing up in the app. It's just that i dont have an account. There is no profile to see, so my girlfriend is basing this on the location/tracking to my phone.
I've contacted google and grindr. Google says I've not downloaded the app and that there is no history with the app on my google account. Grindr says no profile is connected to my email or my phone number. She just says i can have a billion other mail adresses, which I dont have. There is only one gmail account logged in on the phone, and that account is confirmed by google support not to have a history with grindr.
But still its tracking to my phone. We live somehow remotely, so I am the only other person close by, within around 50 m. I moved to another city to move together with her, started a new career and am doing everything i can. She broke up with me today because of this. She has complex ptsd and with me earlier in our relationship not being honest, it's obvious that she thinks I have an account or have had an account. For me, im just devastated. I REALLY need help to prove I have nothing to do with Grindr. Please help me out with ideas, I'm devastated over this.
Best Regards,
Leo
Sorry in advance for a lengthy description of my issue.. When my girlfriend came home yesterday she asked me why the hell i have Grindr on my OnePlus nord 2 and shows me the app on her phone and there is a notification which says "closest chat 1m away" when we are sitting next to each other. I replied that i've never had grindr and that I would have no use for the app since i am straight. She doesn't believe me so I walk away with my phone so we can check if distance changes and sure it does. When I am 20m away it says 20m away etc. When I disconnect location services on phone, the "chat 1m away" dissapears, so its quite clear its tracking to my phone. So, somehow grindr is locating my phone and its showing up in the app. It's just that i dont have an account. There is no profile to see, so my girlfriend is basing this on the location/tracking to my phone.
I've contacted google and grindr. Google says I've not downloaded the app and that there is no history with the app on my google account. Grindr says no profile is connected to my email or my phone number. She just says i can have a billion other mail adresses, which I dont have. There is only one gmail account logged in on the phone, and that account is confirmed by google support not to have a history with grindr.
But still its tracking to my phone. We live somehow remotely, so I am the only other person close by, within around 50 m. I moved to another city to move together with her, started a new career and am doing everything i can. She broke up with me today because of this. She has complex ptsd and with me earlier in our relationship not being honest, it's obvious that she thinks I have an account or have had an account. For me, im just devastated. I REALLY need help to prove I have nothing to do with Grindr. Please help me out with ideas, I'm devastated over this.
Best Regards,
Leo