I get the frustration with Samsung over the specs of the Note 20, but yelling that it's stupid is yelling at the people who bought it, or are considering it.
I have a Note 10. I like it but the weight & the width sometimes bothers my hand--I'm a massage therapist with hand/wrist injuries.
I'm considering the smaller Note 20 for 4 reasons.
1) I only paid $300 + Pixel 2 trade-in--I can get $700 in trade for it from Samsung.
2) I really want the new earbuds because I can't wear in-ear buds--all are uncomfortable & all fall out of my ears, regardless of earth's. I really like the open design of the new ones for this reason. And with the freebie promo, these would be free.
3) While I hate the fact that the cut in half the default storage amount, I'm only using 68 GB. I would happily trade the difference in storage for a much bigger battery. -- I've been underwhelmed my the battery life on my Note 10.
4) Ergonomics, as I've mentioned above.
I hate many of the Ultra things left out of the smaller Note 20, but deciding to buy or not, should be each person's choice.