Thanks Mooncatt -
I did eventually find the internal storage by USB to my laptop. Not sure why it wouldn't show before. It did take a long time to pop up. The pictures were there and I was able to move to the new phone. It also contained file folders of all my apps. I wasn't sure what if anything I could use these for as far as installing on new phone, and I've re-installed most of what I want anyway now. Unfortunately, trying all options on the app drawer, the missing aps do not show up. Even when I use downloaded, my apps, installed etc., they don't show (Accuweather was a big one that never showed up) and there were a number of others.. Even a number of them did not show in installed, which I understood meant everything I had ever got from the play store, even if I later uninstalled. I'm slowly getting everything together. I am impressed with speed and battery life on the new phone. Better on standard battery than extended battery was on old phone. I assume because it isn't cluttered up, since It had nothing on it when it started the lengthy process of all the updates. Thought about doing factory reset, after it was done downloading, but there was so much else to set up, I didn't bother and it seems to be running fine without it. I disabled some but not all of the Verizon bloat. Is there anything that I should NOT disable as far as it causing problems down the line?
This was a pain, partly my own fault I think, although I think Verizon might have been able to a better job of helping me back up and sync. I guess since I didn't purchase a new phone from them they weren't too interested. But I've spent over a thousand dollars a year with them for many years, but I don't think that matters.
Thanks everybody for your help. I bought the phone NIB for about $150 dollars and was able to keep my unlimited data. Only a few of the new phones I found appealing, and most were missing things like HDMI direct out, removable battery, SD card availability. It seems the whole emphasis seems to be on making the phones as thin as possible and sacrificing some real hardware features.