I'm torn on it. I got my 4XL the first week of May and I'm mostly happy with it. After having the Pixel 2 & 3 I went with the big one this time due to the awful battery life of the smaller ones and honestly the battery life is fine. I have a 6T and my 6T still beats the 4XL but not by a lot. The camera is fantastic of course and a big reason I went with a pixel again. Haptics are great, there's lots of cool "pixel" things it does that other devices just don't do or don't do as well. If I had to say the main selling points are the camera, monthly updates and things like call screen. Call screen is right up there behind the camera for me. It's a pretty refined device that runs well with solid battery life, so long as you get the 4xl. Also, face unlock is great, I don't miss finger print sensors except when I'm out and have a damn mask on.
Now that all said, I don't love the Pixel launcher nor the icons, never have. But I have grown to love the gesture navigation and third party launchers like Nova or action launcher don't work great with them. You can use them with the gesture navigation but it will be glitchy at times. IMHO humble opinion Oxygen OS is far better and the only OEM launcher I've never wanted to replace. I've had to force myself to use the Pixel launcher just so everything else works well. Personally I hate the hodgepodge that is the app drawer. I should be able to hide apps I don't want to see or use if I cannot disable them and any apps I put on any of my home screens should automatically be hidden in the drawer. Action launcher does this but again, the phone feels sluggish and you get some lag and glitching at times. Frankly if Google is going to go all in on gestures then let me customize the damn launcher.
Anyway I'll get off my soapbox. As I type this my 4XL is showing 50% battery. It's been showing that for the last 10 hours after it shut off on me three times. After two replacement Pixel 2's I'm not feeling good having an issue with my 2 month old 4xl. I think there's still some quality issues but I digress and I wouldn't buy a pixel without insurance of some kind to cover any issues. Ironically my pixel 3 is sitting in a drawer and I've never had an issue with it and it's almost a year old.