So I emailed HTC and I got the response below. Also asking if they would add HTC sense notes to 4.1.
Jelly Bean was released according to the Sprint techs that I have talked to so something went wrong with it. It was supposed to be on HTC's webpage too (i have known these techs for a while)
Dear -----,
Thank you for contacting HTC technical support
we are excited about the latest update for Android, Jelly Bean, and are currently reviewing its features and functionality to determine upgrade plans for our product portfolio. While our goal is to bring the latest software updates to as many of our recent devices as possible, we are committed to maintaining every phones performance and usability first, that is why we first release the updates for the carriers so they can perform additional tests to see if the update matches their customers? expectations. Once they have done that, they will release the updates for everyone. We have no official notice about when the release for the update is going to be. We do not have official notice if it will include HTC Sense Notes.