Update: after thinking I had this problem solved, it came back. I spoke with Verizon and HTC tech and the HTC guy said it was a known GB problem on more than one device and they could downgrade me to Froyo if I wanted. I don't want. But, I want to get texts as well.
What bothers me is that someone said here or elsewhere that when they rooted and used a GB ROM the same thing occurred. I suppose I could get them to provide me with a replacement if I push, but I got my phone just the way I like it, and I have kept it pristine with a cover. My guess is that any refurbished replacement would come with Froyo and would not be as nice as mine.
Maybe just wait until CM gets an ICS ROM ready and then root and ROM.