Ok so it's been five full days of using my XS Max.
The battery life has evened out now and I can easily get two days of usage and I've been using the Max as my daily phone every day this week. I have two Apple watches paired to it and I'm really enjoying the experience the phone is giving me.
Pluses:
- Face ID works EVERY TIME! Doesn't matter if I have glasses on or if I'm bundled up on a cold day, it's never failed to work.
-Apps do not reload after not using them all day. I can leave Instagram open on a picture I viewed that morning and come home that night and still see that picture.
Facebook isn't included in this because it's just a crappy app no matter what phone you use it on.
- The stereo speakers are loud. I've been using the phones alarms with the same song that I used on my 8+ and had to change that to a quieter song because th volume was just too loud. I don't want to adjust the volume on this because that will affect other things as well.
- iOS is so finely tuned on this phone. My model is the AT&T version and I have to use WiFi calling at home and it always activates WiFi calling no matter what as soon as I get home. The 8+ would eventually lose WiFi calling and I would have to reboot the phone to get it back many times.
- LTE is lightning fast on this phone, just as good as on my Note 9. My signal when I am not at home is full bars and excellent clear call quality. Call quality might be just a bot better than on the Note 9, it's seriously good.
- Super fast OS updates
Minues:
- No app drawer
- No Android style widgets. I have a few screens on the Note 9 with notes that I pinned to the screens. Apples so called widgets are on one screen similar to what the notifications pane looks like.
- I can't place app icons wherever I want them like on the Note 9. I can have apps on different screens but they aways default to the top of the screen and then slowly fill up the spaces from the top down till the page is full. I can't have an app on top of that page and one on the bottom.
- iOS still has this stupid 150MB app update limit. If an app is over 150MB such as Facebook, I can't update it on LTE. It will not update until I connect to my WiFi. Maybe this goes back to the studies where they found that iOS users consumed more data then Android users. I hate it.
- Phone still comes with that tiny seriously under specced 5 watt charging brick that will take several hours to charge. I have an old 12Watt iPad charger that I use with my iPhone and it takes about two hrs to charge my phone. Apple is just being cheap here and hoping people will buy their fast charger and I refuse to buy it. My phone was $1499, it should be included.
- No headset jack. Not too big of a deal for me anymore as I have AirPods which I highly recommend.
I didn't include anything here about the Apple watch since the OP didn't mention it in first post. There may be a few minor pluses and minuses that I am forgetting but these are the major ones. Camera is also better then previous models but probably equal to the Note 9.
Am I keeping this phone? YES! I'm also keeping my Note 9 and my S9+.