An update from my end, I went back to CommROM v1.0, and then v1.2 and I'm still having the same problem. Could it be a local network problem that cropped up at the same time from sheer coincidence? Or is it possible v1.3 did something that isn't undone by a reset/reflash to another ROM?
@ snareman as well,
I read through all your posts guys, and after reviewing the thread and thread over on XDA, Here's what I would try if I was in your shoes.. just a recommendation, obviously you all are smart dudes..however, I am confident this is the best chance to fix your ills.. the best option for both of you is to try this. (dys I know you already did a complete wipe, but just bare with me)
Delete existing comrom1.3.zip from your phone
Redownload the rom, store on sd obviously.
Backup your apps with My backup pro or Tibu whatever you prefer. Export your contacts to sdcard or make sure they are sync'd to google. (If you don't have these done already)
Boot phone all the way down. Pull battery, put back in, three button push straight to CWM
Wipe cache and davlik three times each
Wipe data/factory reset
Install comrom
wipe data/factory reset
Boot your phone, and let the media scanner finish before touching anything..
When it fully boots and media scanner is done.
*228 option 1 it will reboot
*228 option 2 it will reboot again
Boot into cwm..flash browser patch
Reboot
Check data..use your browser to try to load a page or do a search
If data is good,
Then add your google account, and download your backup software from the market..
Just restore your apk.s DON"T RESTORE APP DATA or SYSTEM SETTINGS..
Reboot..
Check data again.. if it is bad, the problem is with your restore from your backup..
If all is good, check your messaging app.. see if it's working.. if it is not, then I would flash the messaging patch on the op..(I followed the same procedure as listed and messaging works fine, but I haven't written any really long messages. I know MMS works.. )
I know this requires clearing your phone, ugh.., but the way it sounds, you all were both going to do it anyway..
KBv1.3 is the best I've had on my phone, but is very sensitive to the install process..I hit some snags the first install and ended up doing it over.... Like I said you all are obviously smart people, this is just what I would do if I had your problems!
Good luck and let us know how you all get it fixed!!