I'm just saying, you're stressing over it like it's a choice of whether to take your relative off of life support. Just try one of the many suggestions offered to you and see how it goes. You were given very detailed steps on what to do, several times, in several threads. It seems you are either ignoring all the advice or simply not reading the threads given to you.
It's not a major crisis. There are solutions. Do them and move on with your polished kick stand. No need to post multiple threads and keep posing, "help" after members here have offered solutions.