A few of you are missing something very important!
Regularly draining the battery down to 3% is going to mean s new battery every couple of months. Lithium batteries are not deep-discharge batteries. The operating range for best battery life is charge to 80% and stop. Start charging at 40% or turn the phone off.
It's great to see 6 weeks of SoT, but when you come back here in a month asking how to fix the battery not charging all the way to 100%, or discharging from 100% to 10% in just a few hours, don't waste your time - just send the phone back for a new battery. (And hope that Samsung still charges only $60 for a battery replacement.) Gone are the days when we could buy a battery for $5 and replace it in 15 seconds.
I get 3 12-hour days with light use (on a Pixel 2, which is under-batteried), going from 80% to 40%, but if I'm using the phone all day, I hit 40% late in the afternoon - less than 1 full day. And you won't do much better. A little, because the Note 9 isn't *** under-batteried, but not that much. (But I don't plan to keep having the battery replaced. Maybe after 3 years, not sooner.)
I appreciate what you are saying... though I think you are overstating it.
I have been using smart phones for many years (even before Apple invented it). I rarely run it to dead, but I always let it charge up. In all of those devices, and in all of those batteries, I have never replaced a battery or felt I should. Smartphones are designed to make your life easier and babying the battery like a mother hen ins't the point.
The best way to take care of the battery is to turn off the device and put it into a drawer... that will maximize its useful life.
Each to their own... you do it your way and I will do it my way.