The Incredible seems to be the red-headed stepchild of Android no matter where you look. AC, Verizon in their AD campaign, or the whole Android Community. This isn't the first time this lack of coverage has been brought up, whether it be here or another Android related site. It's just how it is. As an Incredible owner who wouldn't trade my DInc for any other phone on the market, I definitely feel that it hasn't necessarily gotten the attention it deserves.
However, I don't think there is a conspiracy or anything. There are lots of Android devices out there to cover, especially with how fast they are coming out. We know the Incredible has sold well, and there are lots of them in the wild. But I, too, have often wondered where they were! I think us owners just have a great device that doesn't see as much modding as some other devices, and doesn't see as many shortcoming as others. However, to say we have a phone in the "middle" or that is "average" or "pretty good" is an understatement. We have a great device, there just isn't as much going on with it, which in turn means there is not much news to report. I love my Incredible and would love to see it get more coverage, but if you look hard enough now, you'll probably find what you're looking for. Just my opinion I guess.