the phone has been crashing and rebooting and acting slow. so I reset it. And my saved voice mails from my husband who just died are gone. Can I get them back?
Welcome to Android Central! Our condolences about your husband.
Voicemails aren't saved to the phone -- they should be saved to your carrier's voicemail system. Make sure the phone is set up with your carrier's voicemail again, and check your voicemail inbox.