What happens if your wife sends the same pictures (that are already black & white) via email? Do they show up in color?
You could turn Hangouts off temporarily (from within Hangouts, Settings -> SMS, uncheck 'Turn on SMS') and see what happens. Have her resend the same SMS from her phone.
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