How can a droid and a BB send Calendar meetings to eachother?

[mcptech]

Thinking about getting the DINC. Wife and I both have BB's and sync our life thru the calendar. If I go droid what is the best way to send meeting request from droid to blackberry and viceversa?

I am not on an exchange server by the way.
I have a gmail account/ wife does not.
we both have outlook but not exchange server.
We both have windows live email accounts.

How do I make the calendars talk to each other. This is probably my biggest concern as it is one of the most important functions for us.

 

[jgodin03]

open a other gmail account to you and your wife and install Google Sync on her berry.

Keep your personal and use this ''shared'' one for sync between both phones.

 

[huffman18]

Just setup another calendar. You can add her email address to it and it will show new entries every time you add one and then sync your Droid/BB. My girlfriend and I have one and it makes staying on top of events that come up so much easier.