I finally figured out how to switch default "save contact" from phone to my gmail account.

I have a Note2 with the latest android
Go to
1) settings
2) Application Manager
3) all
4) scroll down to Phone
5) Clear Defaults
exit, exit, exit
I rebooted... not sure if that was nessasary
now.... when I save a number from dialer or otherwise
1) add to contacts
2) Create contact
3) now I have a drop down menu (which I didn't have before... only phone) I can pick my gmail account where to save the contact
4) type in info and save
it is now in my gmail contacts
by removing phone defaults I now have that choice again between "phone" and "Skype" when I am trying to call someone. If I select phone and "always" it will not effect my saving default....
Hope this help... jon