Are you having issues with your device or do you just see something you don't like or didn't expect and now want to change it?
Reporting RAM numbers is like everything else with all manufacturers, they are going to give you the biggest most impressive number possible, usually without lying, even though that number is based on a perfect world scenario. Cars get 34 MPG on a track with a warm engine, in 70 degree weather, on Tuesday when they are fresh off the production line. And truthfully 2.5 out of 3 isn't that bad when you consider the device needs some RAM just to be awake running the OS, system apps, and other apps running in the background. This is the same with ROM. Devices report 128 or 256 memory but exclude the fact that some of this memory will be used to store the OS and will never be accessible to the user. On top of this, IDK what OS version you're using but, Android does make efforts to optimize resources and takes into account functionality. On some of the flagship devices with 12 GB of RAM you can regularly find them at 6, 7 or even 8 GB of RAM in use. Trying to manually close apps to decrease that number just results in the device reopening those items. This why many RAM saver apps cause issues with devices. They close and then the OS reopens.
*coughs quietly and steps off of soapbox*
In the meantime, if this is something that you really want to pursue XDA Developers, at a webpage of the same name, is a good resource for how-tos and help when it comes to rooting Android devices. Of course, I can't know your tech level, but I will caution that tinkering with the OS on any device can be a tricky thing and there is a chance that what seems like a small change can permanently ruin a device. We see posts like that around here often. And unlike a laptop or PC corrupting an Android OS is not as simple as reinstalling the OS and starting over.
Best wishes. Be sure to checkout XDA and their resources. Let us know what you decide and how it turns out.