By the way, do I keep checking settings/about phone/system updates to see if the update has been pushed to me, does it just pop up on my screen automatically, do I need to restart, or go to the Motorola web page? How do these things get pushed out?
Motorola may handle rollouts slightly different than Google does, but I suspect they're similar. Basically, your phone will check for updates every six hours or so automatically. However, the update notifications go out in batches every twelve hours. Constantly hitting "check for update" therefore won't do anything for you if your phone is not part of the current batch, but checking manually can save you several hours of waiting if it is.
So bottom line: feel free to check manually (settings -> about phone -> system updates), but doing so more than twice a day won't speed things up. Even if you don't check manually, the update will eventually come (it will appear as a notification).
One more thing: if you read something about "forcing the update" by clearing your Google cache or fiddling with Play Services,
don't do it. While it won't permanently do any harm, it can screw up your Google account for anywhere from a few hours to a few days before Play Services sets things right again. Better to just sit tight and wait.