You can alter the Vibrate in settings>check Silent Mode>Vibrate and select *Only in Silent mode*
Or download SilentMode OnOff widget by CurveFish
I use the Easy Reminder app also gives different lights for msgs and notifications. I have used it for over 3 months now with no issues despite what some other phone model users say. There is also COL Reminder app.
I am thrilled about the SD move but I am disappointed in no Adobe Flash - overall, I do see slight speed improvements and I love the incoming/outgoing call colors on the screen. But like others, games like Angry Birds aren't much better.
LG Ally: Top-notch keyboard, Android, least amount of bloatware and flexible software, resilient tempered gorilla glass, an incredibly sturdy well-made handset, Kick-ass clarity and LOUD speakerphone, but slow CPU & no flash.... LG was soooo close in making the perfect Android phone and blew it. They need to make an LG Ally 2: just improve the flaws, (speedier CPU too) and leave the rest as it is and I bet it blows the others away.
ALERT TO PHONE DEVS: You see how the LG Ally's kb is the best around on all forums and reviews of Android phones, I don't understand why you can't rationalize & just say *ok - look at this, just duplicate the KB & let's work around that because apparently we got THAT PART RIGHT.* But no. They make new phones and alter the best feature. /facepalm