[Q] Samsung Infuse ICS Custome SMS chat window??

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I wanted to ask how do you setup a sms chat window the way you want it.. I mean I have loaded lots of ROMs on my infuse and the one thing that kills me is I find a ROM I like but the SMS window sucks... lots of ROMS have different ones so I know there is a way to do it... like the ROM I have now is the remICS-UX 1.2 and it has a chat windows with white background and it sucks.. remICS-UX 1.1 had a black one and I liked it... butI would really like to have the one that came with my infuse if I could change the colors.. can anyone help me with this?? Oh and also my SMS chat does not sync up.... I mean everything I text is on the bottom right and my friends is on the top left.. Not like a conversation where its what they say then what you say and then there reply. Its all them, them, them and then you, you you. Anyone help me please.

Thanks
Chris