The animosity is not to having a home button, but rather to having the home button being hard instead of soft. Aside from turning on the phone, soft buttons can do all the things you mention. The hard button looks and feels cheap to me. But I think what mostly bothers me is that you have to push it differently than any other buttons or icons. It is not unusual for me to lightly touch it, just as I do the back or menu buttons, which of course does nothing.
Ah. Thanks for explaining that.
This really is a different strokes issue. I like the hard button exactly for the reasons you don't. I like feeling the d?tente of the key when I push it and I like being able to feel the difference between short and long passes.
I don't like the soft keys because the icons are ugly and they interfere with my themes and skins--and I don't like the look of two docks. And I don't want to hide the main dock because... Well, I don't.
I too have used countless phones, each for a month or six weeks. I've used some phones with beautifully engineered hardware. Holding a phone like that is like... It's like holding a beautifully machined pistol. It has weight to it, and balance, and feels substantial without feeling heavy.
However, most of us are looking for thinner and lighter in our phones. Plastic is cheaper and, if good quality, lighter. And the placement of the power and volume controls, as well as the headphone jack and the micro USB port - - those things matter.
Rounded corners vs. squared corners - - that's just cosmetics. For me, it's the innards that matter: processors, radios, antennae, displays. I can always change my shade of lipstick. (Which, for the record, I don't wear.)
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