i am rooted and i can not get in the bootloader manually either as of right now i am stuck
ok so, you've been trying to get to bootloader/recovery manually right? by pressing VOL up, VOL down, and POWER together while the phone is off?
so, you flash recovery this way -
download this file:
http://download.clockworkmod.com/recoveries/recovery-clockwork-touch-5.8.0.2-toro.img
that's for touch recovery. if you prefer you can google search for the regular recovery for cdma gal nex.
rename the file recovery.img
place that file in the same folder as fastboot - should be in the adb tools folder or platform tools folder i believe.
so, connect your phone and open the command window.
open (cd) the adb folder
enter this command:
adb reboot bootloader
that should restart you in the bootloader mode.
then, when that's done restarting, enter this command
fastboot flash recovery recovery.img
let me know if this works for ya or if you need clarification on anything