Why would I care to convince people I've never met that the phone is too big for them? I've simply made the point that it's the biggest Samsung flagship ever, and feels too clunky for myself and a lot of people. It's actually been a very common narrative for the Ultra. For example when you say it's "not as wide as the Note10+" I've pointed out that you're ignoring that it's a 3-dimensional object that has a depth your hand has to wrap around. A depth that exceeds the Note10+ by a wide margin, technically making it more difficult to reach for the opposite side of the screen (let alone the top). This very site we're on describes the Ultra as "
incredibly thick and heavy." That doesn't mean they're trying to convince you not to get it. There are pros and cons to each device, and the S20 is an easy choice for me like the S20 Ultra may be an easy choice for you. I'm 6'1" with proportionate hands and prefer the smaller form factor. Conversely there could be someone out there who's 5'2" but likes huge phones. It's all good. In fact that makes sense to me... if that person's hands are small, they end up using all 3 sizes two-handed anyway, so why not get the biggest one? And of course there will be people with giant hands who want the biggest phone on the market.
I have never told anyone that they should not like or get the Ultra. Get whatever your heart desires. We simply discuss and dissect every aspect of the phone from the size, to colors, to the camera, to features, to accessories, etc. I'm a fan of Samsung's products, and hope the entire S20 line outsells every other flagship.