In your case, faster software updates... sorry...
actual software updates will be a huge upgrade.
I just returned my PH-1 due to a manufacturing defect in the speaker grille. I'm tempted to give the 2 XL a go for a couple weeks to see how it compares. Essential was surprisingly quick with the September security patch and I expect that trend to continue. With both the 2 XL and PH-1 going without a jack, my decision on which to keep long-term will come down to small details. I'm giving both an equal opportunity and keeping an open mind.
LOL... I was going to ask the same thing.
Ironically, this is one case where one of my external DAC/amps solves the headphone jack issue for music purposes. It's not as convenient but it seems like everything is a compromise these days. No single phone is a grocery list of pros only. There's always a con... or three.