I preordered mine 15 minutes after the site went live. My status has changed from BEING PROCESSED to WILL SHIP BY 10/10. I chatted with someone about this comment and she said that it won't happen. She said it will SHIP by the 10th, and that is all any of them are allowed to say. I asked probability of getting it the 10th, and got the same answer. I would not expect it before the 11th if what I hear from speaking to various people is true.
Not sure why all the speculation either. You will get it when you get it. Since my order date indicates that it will ship by the 10th, not the 12th, then I would assume that it will be shortly after that. If it doesn't arrive until the 25th or something ridiculous, then all bets are off and Verizon will have a phone to take back and I will go to another company. I don't recall ever seeing anywhere that the Verizon version of the N3 would be in stores before it is officially released. It doesn't make business sense to allow a store unaffiliated with any phone company to sell their devices before the phone company can.