To alleviate some of the confusion, here are some of the basic terms being used in transportation of consumer goods:
Shipper: The originator of the product
Carrier: UPS, FedEx, USPS, etc.
Receiver: The destination of the cargo, in this case that's you!
Shipped: A shipping label has been created and shipment information has been transmitted (tendered) to the carrier. Tendering shipment information creates an invoice billable by the carrier and payable by the shipper.
Received: The cargo has been picked up or delivered to the carrier. Bills of lading and liability have been transferred to the carrier. Cargo is then taking to a sorting facility for transport.
Arrived: The cargo has arrived at a sorting facility
Departed: The cargo has left the sorting facility
Out for delivery: The cargo is on the route in which it will be delivered according to the terms of delivery set by the shipper.
Delivered: The cargo has been delivered according to the terms of delivery and liability has been transferred to the receiver.