AGAIN, as I have already stated, people should be more patient. This phone is only 5 months old. Almost every phone is released with somewhat buggy firmware. It ALWAYS gets better. Don't listen to ALL the negativity. This is a great phone!
So, not to totally disagree with you but...to partially disagree with you:
Most phones just aren't this buggy.
I've never had a phone that spontaneously rebooted (frequently).
I've never had a phone that when the battery is low and you take a picture, crashes.
I've never had a phone that randomly doesn't work with bluetooth devices it successfully paired with.
I've never had a phone that took 10 seconds (randomly) to redraw the screen.
I've never had a phone that ran out of battery power within about 4 hours with any level of heavy use.
[EDIT ADDITION: I've never had a phone that doesn't lock on to GPS consistently or within 20-30 seconds.]
I've never had a phone that required a third party launcher to make the basic functions work fast enough to not drive me insane.
And, well, I've had about 10 different blackberries, 4 iPhones (iPhone 3, 3GS, 4, 4S), 10 Palm devices and others, Good devices, and many other devices.
The only thing I've never had before is an Android device. But from what I can tell the other Android devices don't behave like the Charge. (DO THEY?!) You seem to be implying this is par for the course with mobile phones. I can assure you it isn't for non-Android phones. And my bet is that it isn't for Android phones either. Right?
I'm personally looking forward to the Galaxy Nexus, if only because I'm certain it will get regular updates.