I believe we should have the option to use sense or not on or phones(incredible). Granted we did buy this phone knowing that it has it, but I feel that its either use a less powerful android phone on VZW or go with sense and be stuck(locked down) with it, discuss.(i know im ranting lol)...btw does anyone know how close they are to rooting and if we would be able to take sense off then?
It's already been determined that that's not possible with the Incredible, even when rooted because much of the core OS (which Sense replaces) is is not in the rom.
Closest you can do is use a home screen replacement -- I recommend Nexus Home as I use it on my MotoDroid -- and set it as default then install as many of the core OS components which have been tested to work on Incredible (3d gallery, etc), but even that wont give you what you want. Core OS widgets are missing and many of their Sense equivelents wont work on a home screen replacement so you would need to find third party ones that work the same way and have a similar feel (if they exist).
Once it is rooted you may be able to install a Nexus or Moto Droid ROM that does not use sense (Desire does) if someone ports it over to work, but for now you may as well get used to it, because as Phil has said numerous times, Incredible is a Sense phone, and there is no getting around it.
It's been know for a while that Sense could not be disabled in the Incredible, I'm curious as to why you bought it since it only a matter of time before the Moto Droid 2 (Shadow?) comes out (November at the latest, possibly sooner) and that will probably be another Sense free device.