Here was the response I got. Stuck in this storm in Seattle so haven't call them yet. What do you guy's make of this?
Dear Ken,
My name is Angelo and I am sorry to hear that the Droid Incredible attachments/video have been limited to 5mb after the November software update. I spoke to our technical support department and they are not aware of any size limits on video or attachments on the Droid Incredible. I called them after I was unable to find any information regarding this myself. I am eager to assist you and I called you today about 3:15PM but was unable to reach you. I left you a message.
The issue you have described may need to be duplicated with a live representative, as troubleshooting equipment via e-mail is extremely difficult. Please call us at 800-922-0204 from an alternate phone to speak with a representative who will walk you through step-by-step instructions to troubleshoot the issue. Please have your wireless phone fully charged and available when you call.
Ken, I am sorry that I missed you today. We are open from 6AM - 11PM, please contact us and I hope we are able to resolve your equipment concerns soon. I want to thank you for being a valued customer; at Verizon Wireless we appreciate your business.
Sincerely,
Angelo
Verizon Wireless
Customer service
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