Did you try connecting a different device to your vehicle?.. a friend's phone perhaps? The reason I ask is because my girlfriend has the same problem. However, we've ruled out her phone as the culprit as it will connect to my car, but nothing will connect to her car.
Just want to make sure it's not your car before you throw your phone out the window.
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