Be careful what you wish for sometimes...I know a lot of iphone users that had to relearn how to use their phones after a major update...comments like my contacts and the way the phone looks and works is nothing like it used to be. Some people like the convenience of having things the same when they pick up their phone because then everything is easy and automatic...not having to think about how do I add a new contact again etc.
We are so lucky we can use differentlauncher and resize icons , change icon appearance, overlap widgets...all the stuff you are talking about. Launchers give us a lot of latitude when it comes to changing thing up appearance wise.
I appreciate where you are coming from(It's kinda like getting a new device when we get an update) but there are options other than one forced on us by a permanent change to a ui some users are used to and like.