I own both Android and Apple phones. There are things Apple does better than Android and Android does better than Apple.
Apple has done an excellent job with parts of their ecosystem, especially imessages. It works seamlessly across all Apple devices. Interface between other Apple users with imessages is great and what keeps me using an Apple phone. Apple core software on mobile devices is polished. I didn't realize how much I loved iBooks until trying to read books on my new Tab S6. There are too many epub apps in the Google store and most of them just don't measure up to ibooks.
I think Apple's hardware and design is outdated and that's why I love Samsung devices. Android devices have pushed the envelope year after year with hardware and design. I love the customization of Android and the OS is just flatout powerful.
With all that being said, I absolutely love my Note 10+ but can't leave Apple because of imessages, my iPad Pro and other apps like ibooks.