Cleared cache and force stopped. No effect. Weird thing. She does not have another calendar entry until our anniversary and I see that, but I don't see mine. Same with her. She can see mine, but not hers. Then my brother-in-laws' birthday in February. We see both of our entries for that date, which is what I expect to see for our anniversary. I'm just going to give up. This is really not worth it. Thank you for your suggestions.