I agree the OS does not load everything up on boot up. That's precisely the point, it guarantees a cold start of the Apps without any residue in the system. When the CPU starts executing instructions, the main memory (RAM) simply stores those computations. The Android OS does not support swapping, which would mean that when your memory starts running out or pushing for its upper limit, the CPU starts asking other processes to release their resources (garbage collection). The less memory you have the the longer you have to wait to start a new process, which would create a delayed response. The summation of these delayed responses is what you're seeing in the first video. It's basic CPU architecture, hence the need for a power cycle. Looking at the facts right now (without any assumptions from years ago), he clearly did not show or do a power cycle otherwise the results would have been similar to the second video. It also really doesn't take long to do one either, adding an extra minute or two to the video won't make a difference.
Just so you know, contrary to popular belief (without taking into consideration the software overlays TouchWiz vs LG UX 6.0) main memory doesn't really effect the launch speed of apps. Just like a computer, the launch speed of applications are actually dependent on the speed of the CPU & it's corresponding secondary storage, which would be the cache/flash memory. Once an application is in memory it's already running so the dependency would be on how long it takes the process to go from secondary memory to main memory. Keep in mind the CPU on the V30 is clocked higher which would be the slight advantage shown in the second video.
Having more RAM (Note 8) simply means better task-switching & the added advantage of running more complicated apps or even opening larger/more complex files. A faster CPU (V30) means having a faster turnaround between input and response (less lag). CPU-bound apps would also benefit with better background processing. In short, both are equally important; your own personal usage pattern will determine which is more valuable for you. If you generally stick with in a single program and you're sensitive to input-output latency then having faster CPU will be more valuable for you. If you constantly task switch between many different apps or if you need to run complex memory-hungry apps to open complex large files, then having extra RAM is going to be more valuable to you.