Update request finally popped up and is on the table doing its thing now. Fingers crossed.
Edit: I got the pop-up without manually checking (believe you me, I've been manually checking for a week). Selected Install Now, left it on table and went to bathroom (when you gotta go, you gotta go). Came back and there was a pop-up message saying there is no update, your device is up to date. What! Then I noticed that the notification bar looked different and the SD card was being scanned along with the synch icon.
SD card scanned and synch done within a few short minutes. Everything looks to be in order. Apps and data. A little disappointed that there is still noticeable lag switching between portrait and landscape. GPS locked on much quicker than before. It was off prior to update, and locking from inside house at my desk where I had troubled with Froyo. Hard KB seems to work better. It was skipping before with double letters and and still does (damn). As for speed, I wasn't fast before with real words but with mashing of letters it seems to be keeping up fine for me except the double-letter words. :'(
Thank goodness the WiFi/4G switching is working now without having to jump through hoops. The only thing now is to test if the insistently annoying beeping sound of no coverage goes away or can be turned off. Anyone?