I think you may be in the wrong forum entirely. Try here: www.crackberry.com.
But seriously, I've had mine since April 29, and I've only had to restart it once (twice if you count the OTA update). In the last two days, the camera has been locking up occasionally, so I will likely restart it later today, but the best app I've installed is Advanced Task Killer. It allows you to close apps that don't fully close when you back out of them. Particularly useful for closing streaming audio (iheartradio, Pandora, etc.)
After reading http://forum.androidcentral.com/dro...how-active-when-i-have-never-opened-them.html, I decided to remove ATK to see if it really was as good as it appeared to be.
It's been nearly a week and I have had fewer issues with the camera locking up, and fewer instances with my internet just closing for no obvious reason.
Your mileage may vary, but the Android OS does seem to do a much better job of resource management than trying to force things with a task killer app.