I use Advanced Task Killer/Why do apps show active when I have never opened them??

The reason I use ATK is because frequently when my Acura's bluetooth connected with the Incredible, the Music App would automatically come on and play. I couldn't figure out a way to quit the App. Is there a setting I can change for Music to not do this?
 
The reason I use ATK is because frequently when my Acura's bluetooth connected with the Incredible, the Music App would automatically come on and play. I couldn't figure out a way to quit the App. Is there a setting I can change for Music to not do this?

riverdog - I am new to this, but I don't know of a way, other than stopping on the track on the media player and either using the back arrow, or home key.
 
I like ATK. Mostly because I have configured it well. I use it to quickly shut off Pandora or DogCatcher if I'm in some other mode: ie: listening to pandora on the way home with google maps up. Get home; hit the "home button" and Kill all the apps.

No more sounds
No more maps
Everything working fine!