I'm with OP on this one. Bear in mind 80% of my phone use over wifi.
With 3G, I used wifi because it is faster.
With 4G, I use wifi because it saves battery.
I would also like to respectfully point out those that say "4G is great!" who have an extended battery have an unfair bias. Please take out the battery, use the phone for a week, and then get back to us.
I'm not bashing 4G, I'm simply agreeing with OP that the pros do not (yet) significantly outweigh the cons enough to say it is superior to 3G in every way. Right now, we trade off faster speeds for mucho battery drain. To me, quite frankly, that's a wash. A draw. In a few months when Big Red does away with unlimited data and starts charging us more because of 4G, I'll be even less impressed.
But people will say, "The unlimited plans are (ostensibly) going away for 3G too!" Correct, but 3G isn't driving the pricing bus anymore. The decision to do away with unlimited data stems from VZW's 4G deployment. Moreover, a large reason for the huge marketing blitz about 4G is so they can have something to point to when they invariably raise prices at the end of the summer.
Anyway, to reiterate, stock phone to stock phone, there are pros and cons for both 3G and for 4G, and I would respectfully disagree with those that say hands down, 4G is the winner.