So, as I notice that a lot of people seem to harbour anger for the VZW agents you call in and talk to when you have a problem. I'll give a bit of inside info that might put some perspective the next time you call in:
I am an avid study of all things technology related. Gives me an extra edge in my position. I, however am a rare circumstance to the vast majority of my coworkers. As far as in house information goes, I'll give you an idea on how up-to-date agents for VZW are with VZW news: You know when we found out we were getting the iPhone? The day they announced it to the public. Yeah, we had no advanced knowledge. I am dead serious. You know when we got notified of the Blackberry OS 6.0 update? A day AFTER the first of you had the notification to your Blackberry's.
The reason for this is that information in the Tech industry travels downhill, and with how fast the tech field advances, that means there are many occasions the ground level agents/tech/supervisors are last to know... yes, last as in AFTER the customer knows.
Now, I can personally say there have been many people under my charge in technical support that I have serious reservations about their judgement in career choices... namely, why work technical support when you abhor technology and/or have little to no knowledge beyond a rotary phone and a typewriter? They rarely last long, as this thread has avidly shown, customers have little patience or tolerance for the slow to adapt, and rightly so.
Now, I want to make something else clear as well. I have a lot of people I talk to between network repair technicians, device manufacturers, and software programmers. There is a LOT more that goes into an OTA update that VZW just "flipping a switch". Trust me, there are only about five millions things to go wrong using the Thunderbolt as an example, between HTC and Google making sure their programming is bug-free (which it rarely is, but thats technology), to VZW ensuring it is pushed security and accurately.. That is why updates are pushed in batches... to limit potential damage like the Blackberry OS 5.0 update.
Now, personally, whomever was talking to a Customer Care rep whom had no idea what an OTA was... I would personally recommend speaking to their supervisor as they likely need a bit more... education. As in, education on what other job they should look into, as wireless technology is obvious not for them. That is my personal opinion.
But remember, the people you talk to when you call VZW are just that. People. They are not all knowing about the inner workings of all things tech related. They have a lot of tools to fix your phone and service, but are not always the quickest at getting the right one... especially if its an issue a manufacturer has not told us about, or, most often, it is not VZW or the device. Yes, many not-to-bright people call Verizon WIRELESS to fix their landline phone and desktop computers. I have no idea why.