Thanks all. I got it working. I deleted the account entirely and then added it back. For whatever reason it's now synching, I'm getting notifications in the notification bar and I'm getting the indicator light.
So at least that issues has been taken care of. Now to keep my fingers crossed on the 4G issue. It seems to be a bit better for me today. Yesterday I was having the same issues I used to have with the Charge, the good ol' 4G>3G>no data. That scared the hell out of me, but today it seems better. I still need to go to the areas I was getting data drop issues to make sure.
It still seems to me that the Rezound got a much better 4G signal. One problem at a time.
I've given up on taking 16:9 pictures with the Nexus, seems to be no way to do that. Very surprising.