I didn't say there was a phone that didn't have it's drawbacks. But pointing out something that is a potential issue isn't really nitpicking, it's discussing the limitations it has which is something everyone needs to recognize and address before purchasing so they don't end up having buyer's remorse. That's what everyone should do with any purchase they make.
Of course it's an Android vs Apple debate. First, look at the title of the thread. Second we're discussing an Apple device on an Android forum, that's inevitable. People considering the SE, especially those who aren't familiar with iOS should know what they're getting into before making the switch, and highlighting the differences between the SE and other Android devices is probably the best way to do so, since many here are probably more familiar with Android. And that's not just about the OS either. Apple has a kind of hardware and design characteristic that is different from Android, especially comparing an older design vs the current Android crop.
I have no problem letting people enjoy their purchases. What I take issue with is those who may gloss over things that, if it were an Android device, would be ragged on and called a non starter. I understand things like RAM isn't and apples to apples comparison in regards to the 2 OS's. But I don't see anything wrong pointing out that the battery, while more efficient generally on iOS, is still average at best in this iteration of the SE. Using the older design means they weren't able to pack a larger unit. It's also not a bad thing to say that while video is superior and daylight still are good, their night shots are behind what you'd get on a Pixel device. And the screen, while probably brighter, is lower resolution and over an inch smaller than the Pixel's in roughly the same physical footprint.
You can't do a proper comparison or make an informed buying decision if you only focus on the good parts. You have to look at the whole picture, warts and all. And this thread isn't just for people who are familiar with iPhones, there are some here I'm sure that have no experience with them, so they should have all the facts before making their decision. The same way people point out the Pixel's shortcomings in this forum when asked about their experiences with them.