Thank you so much for this post, and I completely agree with almost everything you said, especially dealing with you being busier, having a job, etc...
I love the Android experience, but why is it so hard for Google to come out with a properly refined product? For example, it seems having a Nexus product comes with many sacrifices that are just annoying, especially when you become busier and have more tasks. When you don't have time to root anymore/find that perfect ROM, it just seems like a hassle sometimes.
As much as people make fun of Apple (myself included), I bought myself my first ever Apple product ever this summer, a MacBook pro, and for getting work done more efficiently with less hassles, I find it tough to beat OSX. Even with iOS, the refinements are so smooth that I still wonder every day if I should switch to an iPhone 5.
I really wish Google listens to these complaints, because I just can't take it anymore. I've been with Android since the turn of 2010 ( starting with the HTC Hero), but I'm just getting busier and need things to work properly, and although I love Google and it's awesome apps, I may just have to switch over to an iPhone for less headaches and a more refined product.
(PS: I did order the Nexus 4, and am totally excited for it. I am hoping for future updates to fix/patch things up. There is so much potential for this to be an absolutely amazing phone).