Well the kickstand don't bother me either way and I think everyone knows the stock battery will have to be replaced on either device if you use your phone all day like I do and I don't have a outlet next to me all day. So neither of those are deal breakers for me what so ever. Plus I would have an extra 200 to play with. Don't get me wrong, I want the Thunderbolt, but it won't break my heart go go with the inspire either.
I'm with you... the more I think about the devices and my probable usage (not sure how much I'd use the FFC or kickstand (and I'm not going to pay hundreds extra for a kickstand!), (non) availability of LTE in areas I spend a lot of time in), the more I feel like I'll end up with an Inspire... or maybe an Atrix. I mean really, the Inspire is $60 on Amazon. The extra $240 isn't nothing, and without regular access to LTE, the AT&T/Verizon difference isn't a factor for me.
That said, for now I'm waiting. I want to see what the Tbolt is really like, and how the Verizon plan pricing plays out first.