As the original poster, sorry to have caused so much intensity. I have honestly tried to find info over the past 3 weeks. All the videos I found 2 weeks ago were for 2.4 and were not at all helpful for 4.0.(This is my first smart phone, I was using a cheap prepaid and have ipod touch)
While people feel that apple is a closed garden, I see that if you are not using gmail and other google products, Android is more difficult and often as difficult as apple for non-users.
Someone else using 4.0 said they have to hit "images" every time. There are a number of other simple mail things (the size of the text is too wide in landscape usually, body preview only in portrait, etc) that make using the email difficult. I tried 2 other email apps, but they were not up to my expreience is iOS frankly. (The ease in deleting email, etc.) I really do not like having to test 5 apps to find one that might work, just to read emails. That seems silly to me.
I have tested many simple game apps, and other than Sudoky Daily (which is amazing!!) they are not as good as the ones I have been using.I have posted a list of questions previously, and while I appreciate the responses, they were often by people who like doing really complicated things on their phone. I just want to do simple things.
If there is somewhere where I can learn the ins and outs of 4.0 or HTC LTE PLEASE! let me know. Thanks
Some folks love drama, OP. Don't sweat it. (Forgive me, because this is going to be long.)
I realize you've been trying to find a good Android fit for yourself and your tastes. You are correct, regarding some of the experiences with Android. Like any platform, the best experience on a given platform is generally going to involve the platform developer's products. Google puts the most effort into their own stuff. Sometimes, that results in some features being more developed or enhanced on Android for a given Google product (like GMail).
Therefore, email on Android works best with Google's native apps. For email, your best experience is likely to be with using GMail in the native GMail app. GMail on iOS pales by comparison, so don't base the decision to use it on the version on iOS. Sometimes these differences are by design, and sometimes it's just because of a developer's unfamiliarity with a platform.
I'm not going to try to convince you to stay or go. That's a decision you'll have to make on your own. The "experts" on this board can give you pointers, explain options, or answer direct questions (if given enough information).
To address some of your points about the email experience, I don't use DroidMail, so I can't speak to how well that app works. Since I don't know if you are using a GMail account for your email or some POP, IMAP, or Exchange email account, it is hard for me to make a recommendation. However, in the GMail app, it is quite easy to delete mail. If you want to delete a single message (while reading it) just hit the on-screen delete button. If you want to delete multiple messages (from the message list), just press the check-box of each message you want to delete (multi-select) and then hit the on-screen delete button. I don't see how it could be much easier.
HTML-formatted email could definitely be handled better by the GMail app (and most email apps, in general). This is an area where the Palm Pre (webOS) did a better job (regarding wrapping text so that you don't have to scroll sideways to read everything). I don't have an immediate recommendation for you. Personally, it doesn't bother me enough to want to switch. Your tastes are obviously different.
People are creatures of habit. No one likes change. We get used to something and once we do, we don't like to have to learn new ways to do what we've been used to doing all along. For you, it may seem silly trying five different email apps to find the right fit. For others, they enjoy having the choice. Just as there is no one car that meets everyone's needs, there is no one mobile OS or email app that meets everyone's needs.
Generally, people that are attracted to Android want the freedom to do what they please with their phone (without a parent company telling them that they must use a certain program app to do it). Sometimes, that means people have to hunt for the best fit or experience. Other people prefer to be fed a solution that "just works" and not have to think about anything else. Nothing wrong with that.
Personally, I value my individuality and the flexibility that the Android platform gives me to embrace/express it.