Are you looking for a wired replacement for the AKGs or a Bluetooth option? Many have given you ideas for Bluetooth so I'll offer one for wired.
I have the EXACT same issues that you do and a couple of months ago I bought 6 or 7 different BT options and returned all but one.
As for the best fit for wired, I actually really like the wired Google Pixel Buds that came packaged with my Pixel 3, though many people done like these. --Wired Apple buds also work well for me with a USB-C dongle as they are far more comfortable than the ones that you have to shove into your ear canal.
The Pixel Buds are a slightly different design but they work just as well--with one exception. They can feel uncomfortable if you yank them out quickly but other than that, I actually really like them, and they don't go into your ear canal. They're pretty cheap ($25-30) and the sound is good for the price range--and I use high-end wired audio headphones for detailed listening on other devices.
Hope this helps!