how do I change the email notification tone on ICS, I've looked all over the settings and cannot find it. I'm so sick of the wifes phone ringing like a bycicle, she wants it changed for something more pleasant!
You have to go to your email app of choice and change the ringtone in the settings there, not the system settings. So you'd probably hit the menu button and select 'settings' and there should be a notification tone option. Same with messaging if you would want to change the text message tone as well.
Its under account settings when you hit the menu button. Then touch your account, then when the settings menu pops up, select the ringtone under notification settings. Gmail is similar.
You select by account, so you can assign different ringtones to multiple email accounts.