Thanks - I'll take a look at it. I did try audio manager, but not the pro and it wouldn't let me separate the two )phone/vs sms/txt and email. I must not be doing something wrong or have a setting checked that interferes with the apps. I am in situations where I need the phone to be silent, but need sms/mms and email to vibrate only quickly with one tap. Thanks for the suggestion.
I have this working using Locale. I set all my alerts to Default Sound for Notifications and then set my SMS to any sound EXCEPT the default sound. Then Locale will change the default notification sound to silent at night and back to my chosen default sound in the morning. Anything not set to default sound at night still makes noise so SMS still alerts me.