Lisa, are you asking for help or just blowing off steam?
If the former, have you tried restarting the phone since your problems started?
What kind of update did your phone receive?
Did you install any apps around the time the problems started?
If you prepare ahead of time a Factory Reset won't take an inordinate amount of time to recover from:
- be sure your contacts/calendar are synced with Google
- if you're not using a custom launcher like Nova, take screenshots of your Home screens
- make a backup of things like your Call Log, SMS/MMS, etc (if you care about any of that) - you can try something like:
Call Logs Backup & Restore:
http://market.android.com/details?id=com.riteshsahu.CallLogBackupRestore
Carbon:
http://market.android.com/details?id=com.koushikdutta.backup
Easy Backup:
http://market.android.com/details?id=com.mdroidapps.easybackup
MyBackup Pro:
http://market.android.com/details?id=com.rerware.android.MyBackupPro
SMS Backup & Restore:
http://market.android.com/details?id=com.riteshsahu.SMSBackupRestore
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