I’m not a fan of the curved screens, but I like almost everything else about the phone, so that’s why I bought my Note. I guess many others too for the same reason, you weigh the things you like vs the things you don’t in anything you buy and decide.
That being said, Samsung saying a little bleed is normal is the standard cop out answer. Just like if they tell you you’re losing signal because your holding it wrong. In the latter case, if You find a flaw in an Apple device and they are callled out on it, you’ll be hard pressed to find it in their next years phone or they’ll many times make the adjustment quietly and fix them in later batches.
As you said Samsung has used this excuse for years and still no change. We now know it shouldn’t affect the water resistance on phone so it’s only cosmetic. But it is lame these phones are some of the most expensive in the market and they can’t tighten quality control on it. The videos showing the the different colors changing up and down the leak and bleeding thru when scrolling icons I feel something a little over “normal” and shouldn’t have gotten through QC. I could live with it I guess but it would irk me to see when checking my phone in middle of night and having to accept that’s “normal.” A flaw is still a flaw.
I’m happy to say I was lucky and my Note screen has been flawless.