same thing happened to my replacement thunderbolt. I just kept checking and after about a week and a call to verizon the update pushed through. Now when I check for update manually I receive the "no updates found" message so the lack of message problem fixed itself with the MR1 update I suppose. On a side note, I haven't experienced any random reboots or horrible battery life since the update. The battery last me 10-12 hours, i use kindle and pandora alot and surf the web and check email. The only problem I am having like others is that the GPS locks 1000ft away from my location if it ever does lock on. Also, once in a while the phone will say 4G and i can not use the internet.... it seems like it never switches to 3G when it loses 4G connection. The airplane mode trick fixes it and i get 4G back in a few seconds so not a big issue.